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“It’s Our Life, It’s Our Death, It’s Our State”: Maine Death with Dignity Launches Campaign for Assisted Dying Ballot Measure

April 20, 2018

On April 19 at the Maine State House in Augusta, representatives from the political action committee Maine Death with Dignity officially launched a campaign to place an assisted dying measure on the 2019 statewide ballot. The petition drive is a culmination of nearly two decades of advocacy by death with dignity supporters in the Pine Tree State.

It’s Time, Maine

“It’s time Maine voters had their say and for dying Mainers to have this end-of-life option,” said Valerie Lovelace, chair of the Maine Death with Dignity Steering Committee, founder and executive director of It’s My Death, and our longtime grassroots partner.

For more than five years, Lovelace has led Maine’s grassroots movement for death with dignity. Additionally, she built strong working relationships with lawmakers who sponsored bills in the 2015 and 2017 legislative sessions. Two of those lawmakers, Maine State Senators Dave Miramant (D-Knox) and Geoff Gratwick (D-Penobscot) were present at Thursday’s press conference to express their support for the ballot initiative.

It is time for dying Mainers to have this end-of-life option. It is time Maine voters had their say.

—Valerie Lovelace, Maine Death with Dignity

Flanking the speaker’s podium at Thursday’s press conference were photos of Mainers who dedicated their final months to advocating for passage of an assisted dying law in their home state:

  • Rebecca VanWormer, who became one of the most outspoken proponents of death with dignity in Maine, died of cancer in January 2017 at the age of 43.
  • Eva Thompson, a co-signer of the petition application, died in December 2017, also from cancer. She was 59.

Lovelace brought forth the petition to honor Thompson and VanWormer, as well as Maine citizens from all walks of life and faith traditions who support having a death with dignity law.

“I promised Becky and Eva that I wouldn’t stop until Mainers have access to the same end-of-life options that other states have approved and implemented flawlessly,” Lovelace said.

Valerie Lovelace of Maine Death with Dignity (center) speaks at a press conference announcing the launch of a campaign to place an assisted dying measure on the 2019 ballot. Also pictured (L to R): Maine State Senators Geoff Gratwick (D-Penobscot) and Dave Miramant (D-Knox); Cayla Thompson Miller, daughter of death with dignity advocate Eva Thompson; and Sarah Witte, whose son’s painful death from brain cancer inspired her to support Maine Death with Dignity’s efforts.

Thompson’s daughter, Cayla Thompson Miller, was the first to sign the petition. Speaking through tears, she vowed to continue fighting for the right of all qualified terminally ill Mainers to die the way her mother wanted to but, because Maine lacks an assisted dying statute, could not.

“My mother, the most private and independent person I knew…was unable to eat [or] move on her own” just before she died, Thompson Miller shared. “She was in hospice and receiving numerous amounts of drugs but her quality of life was gone. She desperately wanted to be in control of those final days.”

“The right to make one’s exit gracefully before the pain and helplessness become unbearable should be a right we all have,” she added. “This is not suicide. This is allowing a dying person to make their own decision at the very end of their life.”

Cayla Thompson Miller, daughter of the late death with dignity advocate Eva Thompson, told attendees of Thursday’s press conference that her mother “didn’t want to die. My mom was dying from metastatic colon cancer. There is a fundamental difference.”

Sarah Witte, whose son Andy died from an aggressive brain tumor in 2010, said she was “deeply honored” to sign the petition in his and Eva’s memory.

Most Mainers want to have this option,” Witte added.

Indeed, a March 2017 Public Policy Polling survey of Mainers showed that nearly 3 in 4 voters (73 percent) overwhelmingly support legislation expanding the right of terminally ill patients with less than six months to live to legally obtain prescription medication to end their lives.

Sarah Witte speaks to reporters following Thursday’s press conference announcing the launch of a signature-gathering campaign to place an assisted dying measure on Maine’s 2019 statewide ballot.

Oregon Model

Modeled closely on the Oregon Death with Dignity Act, the proposed Maine law contains numerous safeguards to protect patients who seek to use the law to hasten their death. Death with Dignity Executive Director Peg Sandeen noted that in 20 years of flawless implementation, the Oregon law has been used sparingly—only 1,275 times, which represents fewer than 4 in 1,000 deaths in the state.

“The Oregon law has been implemented carefully and worked exactly as intended for 20 years,” Sandeen said.“The time is right for Maine to adopt this law.”

Lovelace founded It’s My Death to honor her sister, Dee, who died a painful death from cancer in 2009. Nearly a decade later, her commitment to ensuring “human rights and civil liberty…prevail in our dying” has not wavered.

“It’s time now for the voters of Maine to decide [on death with dignity],” Lovelace said. “It’s our life. It’s our death. It’s our state.”


April 21, 2018 at 12:35 pm

Your experience with the breakfast is EXACTLY what I mean, Molly, and there are times when I want to pull out my hair and say, “What”s wrong with these Mainers, anyway?? And, of course, being a Mainer, I know exactly what”s wrong: We build our walls safe and high. We mind our own business. We make our own breakfast and change our own oil, by gum. And so we persevere, because we have more than just bacon and eggs to offer. Thanks be to God that He is in the business of sharing the bread of life with crusty people.

May 8, 2018 at 1:28 pm

Maine is making strides in healthcare by attempting to make Death with Dignity a standard for the comfort of patients. I believe the medical field exists to provide care, but most of all, ensure that patients are not suffering with their condition. If we are able to provide hearable technology for the deaf so they are able to comfortably communicate and hear, we should be able to provide assisted suicide to terminally ill patients who are being forced to suffer unnecessarily. Patient care should be about comfort, and death should be an option for any individual suffering with no relief in sight.

S. Davis
July 12, 2018 at 7:27 am

A person doesn’t have to be terminally I’ll in order to prefer death with dignity. Some just live and get old and see their children getting older and having no enjoyment in their retirement years because an old person, who would rather be gone, has to be taken care of. It leaves us with the indignity of trying to find out how to end our lives successfuly without waiting to be in the worst state possible before we die. Please help us by including us in s bill that prevents us being a burden to our families or leaves us agonizing about our final days.

JIm Gillies
January 22, 2019 at 5:07 am

my brother just passed this past Saturday after being released from Me Med “we can do no more for you. Then went to re-hag for two days and released to his home to die. Hospice assisted, but for 10 days he endured a total lack of privacy and wanted to go. Family had to deal with his mediation that was very scary 24/7 for the 10 days and had the sadness of watching his slow death. He finally passed after 24hrs in a coma. We treat our pets with more kindness. Let me know if I can help and so far have contacted 12 senators all who said they were in favor.

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